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Aug. 26, 2026
What happens when the job quietly begins following a firefighter home? Shelley Hegedus joins Arjuna George to tell the story of her late husband Ron, a Vancouver firefighter who died from occupational cancer in 2024. Shelley describes the subtle changes she began noticing years earlier, including hypervigilance, irritability, disrupted sleep, increased protectiveness and withdrawal. At the time, each change seemed explainable. Looking back, she began seeing how deeply occupational stress had entered their home and relationship. Shelley also shares Ron's cancer journey, the realities of caregiving, the extraordinary community that surrounded them, and her own experience of losing parts of herself along the way. Following Ron's death, Shelley began rebuilding her independence through therapy, journaling, connection, nature, friendship, travel and writing. A deeply personal conversation about firefighter families, occupational cancer, grief, identity, love and finding your…